21 December 2010

Who cares?

Care assumes that there is a connection between people. This connection can be professional: someone is in need and appropriate help is send to help relieve that person of that need. The connection can also be personal, and in my line of work the personal connection buttresses the professional help we offer. I believe it’s the Jesus way. Jesus took an interest in the whole person. Yet, He also exercised another dynamic: prevention. His message was inclusive and in Him the office of the prophet, the healer and the priest merge into one. The model of our master is a model we should pursue, practice, develop and, most important, model ourselves.

Distance and Care creates a paradox. To practice Jesus’ model from a distance is a contradiction in terminus. I feel this is not just my struggle, but is a shared experience.

The challenge, not just in Member Care, but in life in general, is to find effective ways to overcome that distance. We all know that it’s not going to go away and we will need to work hard to maintain healthy relationships. Distance can be devastating for the ministry and especially our relationships. Jesus was aware of the “distance dynamic” in His life and ministry. He didn’t feel the same compassion for people when he was alone in His bedroom, or remote places, as what He felt when he saw the crowds. Only in the meeting of other people true compassion (can) kick in.

As I am suffering from some sort of general indifference (could have something to do with the life-span I am in) it's even harder to care. Too many people, too far away contributes to this. Yet there is also the factor of communication overload. I found that there are no easy solutions or quick fixes to this dilemma. De-friending people on facebook might help a little bit but there are deeper issues. The struggle if life with all its dissapointments can easily add to the growing emotional numbness. What does work though is to do what Jesus did: create opportunities to meet with real life people and hear their stories. If that doesn't result in compassion, we have a real problem and wouldn't know what to do with that. So far, so good though.

Merry X-mas.

10 December 2010

The Gospel as a program

The Gospel as a program
“Visit and talk to five different types of people in a hospital (e.g. doctor, nurses, ward boys, compounder, radiologist and pharmacist). Attempt to share the Gospel and write your experience. (Please don’t sell literature to them. Just try to talk with them).”[1]
My heart and mind crunched when I read these instructions that are part of the training manual for Indian students that are in the organization’s Masters or Bachelors program.  It brought to mind a passage in Kosuke Koyama’s Waterbuffalo Theology, in which he recalls a conversation with a Thai woman in distress. With his limited knowledge of the Thai language he is determined to bring to her the message of Christian hope. She dismisses him with the words “you missionaries are always trying to teach people while you really do not understand the people,”[2] and calls for a Buddhist monk to comfort her instead.
Does the command that Jesus gave His disciples to go into the world and make disciples of all man[3] imply preaching as its methodology? One could easily build a case that supports this idea. We find the disciples preaching left, right and centre,[4] and the apostle Paul seems to encourage it.[5]
So why does my heart and mind crunch when reading the assignment to students who want to learn to be effective preachers of the Good News? What seems to be the problem?
I’d like to problematize the issue from an ethical perspective. Let’s call it an ethical exercise. The unmatched thinker C.S. Lewis suggests that there are three parts to morality: 1) Fair play and harmony between individuals, 2) Tidying up or harmonising the things inside each individual and 3) What man was made for… what tune the conductor of the band wants it to play.[6] He uses the image of a fleet of ships sailing in formation; “The voyage will be a success only, ..if the ships do not collide and get in one another’s way, and .. if each ship is seaworthy and has his engines good in order.”[7] Applying this to my “crunch” it seems that I am experiencing an inner collision, the place where methodology and place[8] meet and compete.
The methodology can be regarded as the instruction to go and preach. One could follow the instruction as is but that would reduce the activity to a mechanical exercise. Regardless of the methodology we always act out of a ‘place’. Place in this context can be different for each individual.
Place, the context in which we act out our life at a particular moment and in a specific context, could mean several things. Doing the assignment as described in the introduction can, for instance,  be motivated by:
·        Meeting the academic requirements (reducing it to an academic exercise)
·        Fear of sanction (either by faculty, team leader, or God)
·        Peer pressure (in order to belong, one conforms to the expectations of and obligations to a group)
·        Genuine zeal and enthusiasm for the assignment (one could have or aspire the gift of preaching).
In real life our place is always a combination of motives.
What does the Bible say about place?
When studying the life of Jesus and the apostles we can distil some generalisations that help us understand the role, importance and, non-negotiable components that needs to be present in place.
Motive
Jesus operates from a place that is defined and characterised by love. This is “the essence of the ethical teachings of Jesus. Jesus summarised the moral law of the Old Testament in Matthew 22:37-39. ‘Thou shalt love the Lord thy God… and thy neighbour as thyself.’”[9]  It was this love that made Christ to lay down His life and die on the cross and this is what compelled the apostle Paul to preach the Gospel.
This same love describes the basis of human relationships. This is demonstrated in doing to others what you would have them do to you.[10] This love “transfers self-love into love for the neighbour: spontaneous care, concern and kindness to our helpless, suffering, stricken neighbour.”[11]
The cup of water to the thirsty, the feeding of the hungry, visiting the sick and those in prison, clothe the naked, returning good for evil, pray for those who hate us, loving our enemies;[12] maybe some of these could be done mechanically but it’s unlikely that in the long run these can be done without love. A collision, to go back to Lewis’ analogy, would be inevitable with its subsequent damage.
Context
Another important component  of place is context; understanding the world in which we live and the ability to relate to it well. Not only was the apostle Paul motivated by love, what gave him his authority was his ability see the broader picture of the lives of the people he attempted to reach. The classic example to illustrate this is Paul’s approach in Athens. He observes and places in context the religious practises of the people of Athens. He purposely looks for and finds common ground that demonstrates respect and serves as the basis for some real and promising conversations.
Purpose
One other component is intentionality. One might be compelled by love to serve and preach, endeavour to understand one’s audience well but lack purpose. Jesus was rather outspoken about His purpose. He came to save the lost. Traditionally the emphasis would be on “saving from hell” but the Bible gives stronger reasons to believe that Jesus came to save people for the Kingdom (which incidentally and subsequently would save them from hell). His emphasis was on bringing Good News and that Good news was and is the Kingdom. His very first words when starting His public ministry were about announcing the Kingdom and the forty days between His resurrection and ascension that He appeared to His disciples from time to time, focussed around His talks with them about the Kingdom of God.[13] Followers of Jesus are representatives of this Kingdom in the here and the now. This awareness will impact and shape our motive and context.
Reframing the assignment to preach
The history of Christianity is a colourful one, to say the least. The reduction of the commission to go into the world and preach the gospel, into a mere technical exercise where force, subduing nations and sublimation of the church’s authority and power, has and still puts the believers with shame. The modern church still battles with the consequences of the major collision between the original Biblical intent to preach the Gospel of the Kingdom by true representatives of the Kingdom who are transformed by the realities of loving motives, critical and respectful understanding of our world and life giving purpose. With that understanding the fleet of ships will sail in sync with Gods loving purpose and our loving obedience to the mandate to go and preach.
Conclusion
Ethically sound preaching is not just concerned about a technical or mechanical delivery of “the goods”. It is concerned about delivering the Good News of the Kingdom in a morally embedded way that honours God and respects people.
It is next to impossible to reduce that to a program and leaders should be concerned about helping students understand the wider context in which the mandate to preach is placed. Then it is the student’s job to reflect on his or her motives and wrestle with internal struggles which requires honesty and acknowledging those struggles.
Pure motives don’t exist. We are a mix of motives, involved in a perpetual struggle to hear and understand the conductor well, reconciling our inner struggles and get these in sync with the music that the Master wrote. That will liberate us and create the necessary space to love our neighbour in a way that this neighbour understands that our first and foremost concern is them and not our program. That is the place where we have earned the right to be heard. And that is what ethically right preaching looks like.


[1] Ministry Training Manual (Hyderabad: OM India, 1993), 29
[2] Kosuke Koyama, Waterbuffalo Theology (London, SCM Press, 1974), 90
[3] Mat. 28:18
[4] Mark 16:20, Acts 8:4, 25, 14:25, 15:35-36
[5] 2 Tim. 4:2
[6] C.S. Lewis, Christian Behaviour in Mere Christianity (New York: Harper Collins, 1943), 72
[7] Ibid., 71
[8] As introduced by Dr. Viv Thomas in his class Ethics in Leadership (Hyderabad, January 2010) as one of the five components (Money, Sex, Power, Time and Place) that concern the life of an ethical leader.
[9] Emmanuel E. James, Ethics, a Biblical Perspective (Bangalore: theological Book Trust, 2001), 158
[10] Mat. 7:12, Luke 6:31)
[11] Luke 10:30-37
[12] Mat. 5:44, 25:31-46, 11:2-6, Luke 4:16-21, 6:27,35)
[13] Mat. 4:17, Acts 1:3

04 December 2010

Short term effort; long term consequence

Short-term 'holistic' outreaches are a booming business. Year-round, hundreds of thousands of Christians travel the world to dig latrines, build or upgrade school buildings, clean up sections of slums, and much more. The desire to leave a 'Kingdom footprint' seems to have caught on. Such experiences do change a participant's perspective and contribute to his/her overall sense of wellbeing. For some, it can even be a stepping stone to significant, longer-term involvement. Personally, I believe in and advocate for this type of outreach—we can even find Biblical reference to legitimize it! The “cup of water in Jesus' name” is a genuine Kingdom activity, as is any expression of love and care for our fellow human being.

And yet, ironically, withIn this noble search for 'Kingdom Now' activity, lies a serious danger: that the overall mandate Jesus gave His students—to “make disciples of all nations”—becomes an afterthought. Face it: the tangible results of physically-oriented outreach are easier to capture as a slide show or blog photos than 'discipleship' is. It’s probably also easier to raise money for physical causes than for 'soul outreach'. The danger is that these hundreds of thousands of (sincere) Christians, who spend literally millions of dollars to travel to people in need, amidst the busyness neglect their recipients' deepest need which is the same as our own need: spiritual reality and new life in Christ.

Not my problem?

There is also the danger of maintaining the assumption of dependency. I recently saw a picture of a number of young people digging a latrine while 20–30 local men watched idly. A friend told me about an outreach to a small island off the coast of Guayaquil, Ecuador during which houses and bridges were built. The local people were very thankful but, a year later, they discovered that not a single recipient on the island could be bothered to maintain the new buildings. They would wait for the Christians to come back and fix it for them. It takes more than mere generosity to break the vicious circle of poverty.

Transforming lives and communities demands that we invest our lives in coming alongside people long enough to see their worldview change and for them to take responsibility for their part in the story. Most 'soul work' takes place in the slipstream of that process. One huge challenge we face is to find people who don’t care what their slideshow looks like, or how awesome their blog pictures are. In our search for 'Kingdom Now', we should never lose sight of 'Kingdom Then'. The overwhelming need for long-term workers remains; the challenge is huge. Yet, in the light of what is to come, we should never grow tired ofinvesting in souls while also challenging the Church to buy into the whole, much bigger picture.


05 March 2010

Why God created women

I am a member of "Christians for Biblical Equality". This week's e-newsletter reads (among other stuff):

Why did god create woman?

In Half the Sky, Pulitzer Prize winning authors Kristoff and WuDuun document the global exploitation of womenan abuse to which we have become indifferent. According to WuDunn and Kristoff, the wholesale degradation of women is not often considered newsworthy. They write:

When a prominent dissident was arrested in China, we would write a front-page article; when 100,000 girls were routinely kidnapped and trafficked into brothels, we didn't even consider it news (Kristoff and WuDunn, xiv).

When more than 100 million females vanished in 1990, Noble Prize researcher Amartya SenSen noticed a correlation between a culture's devaluation of females with steep drops in their numbers (Kristoff and WuDunn, xv). By contrast, in those communities where gender equality is valued, the ratio of women to men resembles gender ratios in the United States. The message is clear: when culture values women and men equally, there is less abuse of women. What is more, when money is invested in women's health, education and businesses, we not only raise women's standard of living, but also that of their families and communities. Educating women reaps clear social benefitsthese women elevate the health, economic and educational standards within their social networks. Perhaps you are like me when you read this research. You cannot help but remember God's purpose in creating women as a strong helper.

According to Genesis, the only cloud hanging over Eden was man without woman. "It is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a helper as a partner" (Gen. 2:18, NRSV). What is the good or strong help that women offer? According to R. David Freedman, the Hebrew word used to describe womans help (ezer) arises from two Hebrew roots that mean "to rescue, to save," and "to be strong" (Archaeology Review (9 [1983]: 56-58). Ezer is found twenty-one times in the Old Testament. Of these references, fourteen are used for God and four for military rescue. Here is an example of ezer used for God's rescue of Israel:

I lift up my eyes to the mountainswhere does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth (Ps. 121:1-2, TNIV).

The quality of Eves help is never that of an inferior or subordinate. Eve by definition was created to lend a vital form of power. When you remember "womans creational DNA" as ezeras strong help, it explains two perplexing issues. First, it shows how women, as a whole, never perform according to the cultural devaluation made of them. Throughout history and within Scripture, we observe women's successful leadership which, I tell my students, is a fact not readily incorporated into Christian curricula used in churches, colleges or seminaries. Second, if ezer is woman's "creational DNA," this also explains why women are so devastated and demoralized when churches fail to recognize their God-intended purposes. Treating females as inferior and subordinate violates an essential component of their calling as ezer. And it also explains why the more we recognize women as powerful help, the more they in turn extend strong help to others.

When churches and mission organizations welcomed women's capacity as ezer on mission fields and ministries throughout the 1800s, women's empowerment and release led to quantum growth in Christian faith around the globe. Moreover, as these female missionaries began serving, they also elevated the education, commerce and health in the very communities where they served. Let's equip, empower and release ezers to build Christ's kingdom, welcoming with gratitude Gods plan for women.

Mimi Haddad
President

05 February 2010

The Church as a Newtonian fluid

The church as a Newtonian fluid

In Leading the Team Based Church, George Cladis dedicates one chapter to “The Learning team.” In this chapter he talks about the need for organizations to change their concepts about learning and refers to Stephanie Marshall who states that education is hanging on to old paradigms that no longer fit our new worldview. This old paradigm uses mechanistic metaphors regarding learning such as universe as a clock, brain as a computer, and learning as a blank slate.[1]

This traditional, mechanical and Western way of learning is very much linear, or Newtonian; “the size of drops is directly related to the thickness of the fluid, all else being equal.”[2] The main purpose of learning is to pass on information.

Gene Getz asks the question whether it is possible to believe the Bible is the word of God, and to communicate it to others with expertise, and yet be a victim of institutionalism.[3] With a legacy of strong evangelical scholarship with its emphasis on doctrinal teaching, the primary objective of many evangelical churches has been on transmitting these teachings and doctrines to the church members.[4] Today the church has absorbed this legacy in a way that it is reflected in its organization. Getz identifies three major challenges that this Newtonian model (Cladis) is presenting the contemporary church with:

  1. Curricula are designed to teach young men a knowledge of the content of the Scripture, so that they might transmit it to others through a pulpit ministry.
  2. These young men went into churches and taught as they were taught: the “little professors” versus “the students”.
  3. Church structures and patterns were designed to carry out the Bible-teaching objective.[5]

This one-sided approach to the way we perceive how people learn raises a couple of questions. What about the other experiences Christians need to become mature believers? What about the Biblical notion of a body where all parts contribute to the growth of the members and the overall body?[6] As Getz puts it: “How can all members of the body use the grace God has given them to build up the rest of the body, when they are consistently “forced” to sit and listen to one man teach or preach?”[7]

Releasing the non-Newtonian grip

A non-Newtonian approach to learning would be more organic; an environment where factors such as stress, strain and time are brought into the equation, resulting in a different approach to learning. In my church there is a growing discontent among those in their twenties and thirties regarding the traditional, linear approach to learning. Many of them have experienced a far more effective way of learning during their time in college or university where IFES student bodies have been experimenting with more organic models of learning. Those student bodies have succeeded in creating learning communities where students felt comfortable to ask questions, expressing doubt and learning together. In these models the “pastor” no longer fulfills the role of the directive and insisting expert but instead has become the coach or spiritual director, walking alongside the student in his or her journey through life and faith. The emphasis would be more on modeling through example and facilitating accountability relationships through triads or quartets.

Cladis makes a plea for “learning teams” and believes that these can become strong entities of Christian discipleship and mission, making a profound influence on both the church population and the town or city in which they are located.[8]

The necessity to move from a Newtonian to a non-Newtonian learning environment is powerfully stressed when Getz quotes a well-meaning layman, “I take notes in my Bible at every meeting of the Church, and I have all this wonderful Bible information, but something is really lacking in my life. Something is wrong in my Christian experience.”[9]

The challenge for the Church

In the past six years this issue has regularly been on our church-leaders agenda as we all recognize that the Newtonian approach to learning is not the most effective. We all agree that learning only takes place when a person demonstrates the ability to put the information, he or she has received during a Sunday morning service or a bi-weekly Bible study, into practice. Yet, for our preachers to transition from a Newtonian to a non-Newtonian approach seems to be too big an obstacle. The reason is very simple; we all have been taught but one approach and the majority of the church members expect a “good old sermon.”

To transition from the one paradigm to the next is a journey that doesn’t happen overnight. The majority of preachers first need to be de-programmed. We are taught that we are the experts. We did put in the hours and we love to study and pass on the fruit of our hard labor. We do know that many church members hardly read their Bibles and ask ourselves what qualifies them to contribute to the learning experience. We believe in our doctrines and will go to great length to defend those. It took us hundreds of years to get where we are today and we’re not too eager to give it all up.

Many preachers will consider it a threat to give up the old way of “schooling” and transition to “learning.” To see to it that church-members divided up into small communities that are connected to real-life issues, focus on networking, are invitational and facilitating research and inquiry, intergenerational, comfortable with ambiguity and paradox, playful, trusting and loving; the design for renewal, growth and change.[10]

To achieve this requires a commitment from all leaders and where a church has a more top-down structure, it has to start at the top. Without the full cooperation of the executive leaders this important paradigm shift that undoubtedly will accelerate and deepen the learning, growth and change of the church-members, will not happen.

How to transition from a Newtonian to a non-Newtonian model

The change from mechanic to organic learning doesn’t mean that the church needs a complete make-over. Structures might be challenged and in need of adjustment, first and foremost it starts with an inner conviction that the organic learning model is a better way; the building of learning teams a crucial, first step. Cladis suggest the following ways:

  1. Cultivate Spiritual Discipline through providing spiritual growth and discipling off all the members, with the emphasis more on spiritual life development than passing on the right doctrines.
  2. Model learning through ongoing personal development and facilitating ongoing learning for the leaders.
  3. Develop Team Networks that facilitate learning from peers and other churches/denominations.
  4. Train people for ministry, including every single person, paid and unpaid, that is involved in active ministry.
  5. Be mosaic in learning, and not afraid to get information from other sources and groups.
  6. Avoid arrogance and complacency. Success quickly goes to the head.
  7. Make heroes out of those who fail. Ridiculing people who make mistakes snuff out innovation and it’s better to create an oral tradition of learning from failure.

Applying it to real church life

Despite the fact that our church leaders (me being one of them) are aware of many of those dynamics that this new approach entails, to put it into practice is a totally different animal. The biggest transition we find ourselves in is the formation of learning teams. We call those ”small groups” and we have redefined the purpose of those small groups. “Community” is the key word and what we have found is that the meaning of community has lost its deeper meaning where accountability, mutual care, acceptance and trust have become watered-down versions of the original.

Sample programs, (informal) settings, content and vision are some of the dynamics that need to be considered in order to make a small group work. The dynamic of the community should “..take them places in their relationship with God and others that they wouldn’t have gone on their own”[11]

Community with each other, growing in relationship with God; it all sounds great. Excitement, and an agreed upon common goal is not a guarantee that things will go well. The small groups consist of people that real people, with real issues and personality traits; people on a journey to wholeness. Henry Cloud and John Townsend list six potential problems that can arise within a group: neediness, noncompliance, passivity, shut-up, aggression, narcissism and spiritualization.[12]

This is where the small group leader is key. “A leader who acts as a spiritual director understands what it means to build bridges, engage culture, speak the truth in love, and relate to others whore stories are different.”[13]

As a church leader, responsible for our twenty-five small groups, my main task is to get together with the small group leaders and facilitate an ongoing conversation and experience on community. Two years into this journey, we still have a long way to go and the saying that you can’t teach an old dog new trick seems to apply here. It is tedious and takes a long time. For many leaders the default is to teach, to pass on information, to be the expert. To change that paradigm in their own thinking is more of a challenge than I could ever anticipate. Less of a problem are the younger leaders who’s spiritual lives were shaped by being part of learning groups. They are more open, honest, accountable and quicker to trust others. It seems natural to them.

One area which seems to be a huge obstacle is the training and equipping of our members involved in ministry. There is reluctance to take time out and be trained. Our church only has lay-leaders, all of them young urban professionals with extensive social networks, demanding jobs and very little time. They don’t mind taking on responsibility to take on a task but pass on any suggestion of further training. This is a real headache and I don’t know how to solve this. It obviously and visibly hinders out growth and development as a body.

Personal application

Three years ago I started an experiment. I took fifteen young people and four young leaders on a journey. A covenant of commitment was signed by everyone and we journeyed for a year. My goal was to establish a community and I realized that the key to it was (very) small groups. After three months of weekly meetings a transformation started to happen in all of our lives. Trust, accountability, transparency and willingness to risk started to happen. The effect of a true learning team started to impact the church.

The hard part is that, despite the fact that everybody in the church has felt the impact, up till today I haven’t found anyone willing to take the model and apply it. We know the truth but to engage in the time-consuming application of it, is still asking too much of many.

I guess that to truly change from the Newtonian style to non-Newtonian, in reality, will take a whole generation. It’s not a matter of changing the blueprint. It is a matter of conviction, dedication and reframing.


BIBLIOGRAPHY

Cladis, George. Leading the Team-based Church. San Francisco: Jossey Bass, 1999.

Cloud, Henry and Townsend, John. Making Small Groups Work. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2003.

Getz, Gene A. Sharpening the Focus of the Church Chicago: Moody Press, 1974

Stanley, Andy and Willits, Bill. Creating Community. Sisters: Multnomah Publishers, 2004.

Webb, Heather. Small Group Leadership as Spiritual Direction. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005.



[1] George Cladis, Leading the Team-based Church (San Francisco: Jossey Bass, 1999), 147

[2] Ibid.

[3] Gene A. Getz, Sharpening the Focus of the Church (Chicago: Moody Press, 1974), 202

[4] Ibid., 202-3

[5] Ibid., 203

[6] 1 Cor. 12

[7] Getz, 204

[8] Cladis, 149

[9] Getz, 204

[10] Cladis, 148-9. The author lists more possible characteristics of these communities. Only a few are mentioned here.

[11] Andy Stanley and Bill Willits, Creating Community (Sisters: Multnomah, 2004), 107.

[12] Cloud and Townsend, Making Small Groups Work (Grand Rapids: Zondervan,2003) 253-79.

[13] Heather Webb, Small Group Leadership as Spiritual Direction (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2005), 95.