If there were such a thing as a painless church, the people in it would be living in utter denial. If the preacher says there is no pain and backs it up with a scripture or two I will live my live as if there was no pain. And when I would feel pain I would tell myself it's just an illusion, deny that it's there.
Why do so many Christians ly about their true battles and struggles? Because we are being told that we have the victory. If that is true how come so many live defeated lives?
Not facing the realities of your inner battles is one of the biggest sins and one cannot be healed from these sins untill these are acknowledged and confessed.
If I deny that I have financial problems I need to pretend that I am doing well and have no needs.
If I deny that my back is sore, I will have to pretend that I am physically fit and will keep my back straight (despite the extra pain that causes).
If I deny that my marriage is not working, I am not communicating with my children, I have to do a lot of explaining (lying to myself and others) to pretend that everything is well.
Bottom line: Face you pain. Acknowlegde it. Confess it. And, God willing, maybe receive healing.
Get real or take a hike
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